Embracing Motherhood: Overcoming the Overwhelming, Even in the Best Moments
Undeniably, motherhood is an enriching yet demanding experience. Even in the most joyful moments, mums can feel besieged by the persistent invasion of privacy, incessant questions, and unpredictable routines.
At our clinic in London, several team members are parents to school-aged children, providing firsthand experience of the struggles and trials of motherhood. Digging deep to find unprecedented levels of patience is a frequent necessity. Our children are absolutely and irrevocably worth the extra exertion, but it doesn’t negate the existence of tough, exasperating days, nor does it dismiss the periodic feeling of being overwhelmed.
Struggling to Prioritise Self-care: Understanding the Sacrifices of Motherhood
Our clinic often meets mums who share their struggles in finding time for self-care or prioritising their needs. This is not so much a complaint as it is a stark statement of reality. The commitment to their children and families is a considerable task, one they hold dear and central to their lives.
Embarking on a Personal Journey: The Decision for a Mummy Makeover
We encounter these mothers at a pivotal point in their lives, where they have chosen to make a profound change to enhance their well-being. A mummy makeover procedure appears to be the right choice for them. For some, this decision is accompanied by wrestling with feelings of guilt for wanting to take a breather and do something exclusively for themselves. Concerns about appearing selfish have also arisen. However, they have come to accept and embrace the understanding that self-care doesn’t undermine the love and dedication they have for their children. In essence, doing something for oneself doesn’t diminish the fact that as a mother, you would do anything for your kids.
What are the most commonly performed procedures in a mummy makeover?
A “Mummy Makeover” is a term used to describe a set of cosmetic surgery procedures that aim to address the changes a woman’s body undergoes due to pregnancy and childbirth. The most commonly performed procedures in a Mummy Makeover include:
- Tummy Tuck (Abdominoplasty): This procedure helps to flatten the abdomen by removing excess fat and skin, and also tightens the muscles in the abdominal wall. It addresses the stretched abdominal muscles and skin, often a consequence of pregnancy.
- Breast Augmentation and/or Breast Lift: Pregnancy and breastfeeding often cause changes in the size and shape of the breasts. Breast augmentation uses implants to enhance the size and shape of the breasts. A breast lift, on the other hand, raises the breasts by removing excess skin and tightening the surrounding tissue. These can be performed separately or together depending on the desired outcome.
- Liposuction: This is used to remove excess fat deposits in various parts of the body. After pregnancy, some women may find it difficult to lose fat in certain areas like the hips, thighs, or abdomen. Liposuction can be used to target these specific areas.
- Brazilian Butt Lift: Some women opt for buttock augmentation as part of their Mummy Makeover. This procedure can include the use of fat grafting (often known as a Brazilian Butt Lift) or implants to enhance the shape and size of the buttocks.
- Vaginal Rejuvenation: Pregnancy and childbirth can cause changes to the vaginal area. Vaginal rejuvenation procedures such as labiaplasty or vaginoplasty can help improve the appearance and tighten the vaginal area.
Mummy Makeover Patient Story – a personal journey
Our exceptional lead nurse, Sumeyra, recently received heartwarming feedback from a former patient (pictured above, before and after her surgery). Even three years post-surgery, this patient is thrilled with the decision she made. Let’s delve into her transformative journey:
No amount of dedication or physical effort could rectify the damage to my abdomen from the birth of my third child – a whopping 10 lbs baby. This physical change was something that no amount of workout or sit-ups could amend.
At 31, I was a mum to three beautiful children – a pair of twins and a singleton. The birth of the twins was life-threatening, while the birth of the last child significantly altered my physical appearance. This led me on a quest to restore my body to its former glory. I sought advice from numerous people who were open to sharing their reconstructive surgery experiences.
A friend of mine, a young mum herself, recommended Centre for Surgery, having undergone surgery with them previously. She was over the moon with her natural-looking results. So, I decided to book my consultation, followed by my surgery for a tummy tuck and breast lift.
The day of the surgery was a whirlwind of emotions. I was full of anticipation, yet also incredibly nervous. My last experience under anaesthesia was during my twins’ birth, a time when I was teetering on the edge of life. This day marked a significant milestone for me, and the entire medical team was incredibly supportive, understanding and compassionate.
A few hours post-surgery, I woke up to the reassuring presence of the team. My recovery was smooth, with Nurse Sumeyra keeping a close eye on me until my discharge and checking up on me the following morning. Those familiar with me know I tend to fret over many things, and the recovery period was no exception. However, not once did I feel that my incessant queries were bothersome. Sumeyra was always there to support me.
The experience was truly splendid, but the most notable outcome was the restoration of my self-confidence. As the post-surgery swelling subsided, my confidence soared. This surgery was a game-changer for me.
Now, at 34 and after three children, I have never felt more beautiful. I can unabashedly bare it all and feel immensely good about myself. This transformation is the testament to the life-altering decision I made three years ago.
At Centre for Surgery, we’re privileged to consistently receive feedback from our patients. Their stories are a heartening reminder of why we love our profession and are a cause for celebration. Our commitment remains unwavering – to assist individuals in crafting narratives such as these by delivering impeccable care at every stage of their journey. These aren’t mere happy endings, they are the start of thrilling new chapters in their lives.
Choosing Centre for Surgery: Discover Who We Are
At Centre for Surgery, we offer more than surgical procedures – we provide transformative journeys. Our dedicated team is committed to prioritising your health, well-being, and satisfaction. We strive to deliver unmatched medical expertise alongside compassionate and personalised care.
Our professionals are not only renowned in their respective fields, but they also understand the personal journey each patient embarks upon. This empathy allows us to address your concerns, meet your expectations and exceed them.
Your exciting new beginning is not merely a happy ending for us; it’s a celebration of your courage and our shared success. Choose Centre for Surgery and let’s commence this life-enhancing journey together.
